I can't cry anymore, even if I wanted to.
No matter how many sad songs I've listened to, or how many sad movies I have watched... I had tears in my eyes, but I just can't let it all out and cry.
Googled "how to forget someone you loved".
Just as what I've expected, there isn't a definite answer to this, but "experts" have suggested a few steps:
- Acceptance. Accept the fact that you are hurt and there's no quick fix in forgetting someone instantly.
- Physical Activities. Do something "on your own", jogging, dancing, swimming, etc.
- Blogging. Write a blog to record the pain; let out all the thoughts that you have in mind.
- Time. Last but not least, the same old "time will heal" statement.
I know I need help, I guess I'll try the 3rd method in writing a blog to record my journey of letting go of you...
After the break up, I unfriended you, I ignored your messages and avoided any sort of communications with you.
I thought this would be the best way for us to move on and I would forget all the pain we have inflicted on each other.
Little did I know, the harder I try to pretend that I'm fine, the harder it is to really let go.
Just 2 months after our very harsh break up, I was devastated to find that you have moved on so quick and is seeing someone new...
If that never happened, we will be getting married in 4 months.
Is it possible to let go of the person you claimed to love; the same person you were willing to spend the rest of your life with in such a short period?
I don't know about you, but I can't.
Don't even remember having such picture in my computer... we were so happy back then.